Gail’s story begins on the beaches of Durgan, where she spent her childhood climbing trees and identifying birds with her father and grandmother. ‘Nature was my sanctuary before I even knew I needed one,’ she remembers. That deep connection to the Cornish landscape would become her anchor through years of physical and emotional struggle.
Born with severely turned-in feet, Gail wore casts for the first year of her life. As a teenager, she was told she would need her feet broken and reset, or face life in a wheelchair. It was a fate she refused to accept, explaining: ‘I didn’t want to be defined by what I couldn’t do.’
Things came to a head however when, in her mid-20s, Gail began to experience a different type of pain, initially in her back and then all over her body. A visit to a clinic in her early 30s resulted in Gail being told to ‘accept her fate and give up hope on any chance of recovery’.
But Gail wasn’t ready to give up, remembering: ‘Some mornings I had to drag myself across the floor to the shower. But I kept going.’
Growing up with a fondness for reading and people-watching led her down the teaching path, initially, working in education for 20 years, both in the UK and internationally and gaining a PGCE and a Batchelor of Arts in ancient history and classical archaeology before completing a master’s in broadcast journalism. Her dogged resilience has since led to her carving out a successful career as an adventurer, author, life coach and public speaker. She is regularly asked to give motivational talks and her own personal brand of grit and determination. Gail Force, you might say, has taken her around the world.
After years of searching for answers regarding the cause of her pain, Gail found herself in Como, Italy, where a clinic traced her pain to an unlikely source: her bite alignment. It marked the beginning of her recovery, and a new chapter.
Her career had already taken her across the globe, from teaching in Hong Kong to working on a millionaire’s yacht. But it was the Appalachian Trail, reaching over 2,000 miles from Maine to Georgia, that became her crucible. ‘I had no idea what lay ahead,’ she says. ‘But I knew I had to shed the weight of routine and start healing.’
She hiked through blizzards, bypassed the Smoky Mountains, and finished the trail aged 41, one year after she was meant to be in a wheelchair. Her memoir Unlost, published in 2021, is a love letter to the healing power of nature.
Why had she ignored the pain for so long? I ask her: ‘I didn’t know how to stop. I was working at full tilt, pouring myself into everything but myself.’
Gail’s remarkable story resonates now more than ever. Chronic pain affects millions, often invisibly. Her journey shows that healing isn’t linear—and that nature can be a powerful ally. ‘If you’re facing obstacles, know that epic adventures are still ahead,’ she says.
After Covid disrupted her plans for the 3,100-mile Continental Divide Trail, Gail pivoted. She took a slow boat to Alaska, camped under the stars, and embraced a gentler pace. ‘It wasn’t about the miles anymore. It was about the moments,’ she shares.
Now, back in Cornwall, Gail runs Wild Words and Water, a five-day retreat blending writing, wild swimming, and soulful connection. Voted one of the UK’s top writing retreats, it’s held on a private estate surrounded by Cornish countryside. She also offers life coaching, helping women turn challenges into growth. Whether battling burn-out or seeking clarity, her story is a reminder that you’re not broken, you’re becoming.
Gail’s next retreats run from March 21 to 25 and May 2 to 6. For now, ‘the wilderness wanderer’ is back on home turf, but who knows what adventures are lurking around the corner..
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